10. “Sure, we can go out, but text me the day of”
Your initial thought may be that she wants you to text to her as a reminder of your date since she is probably very busy. However, that assumption would be wrong. What she’s actually saying is something more along the lines of, “keep that day open, if I don’t find anything better to do, then we’ll go out.” Though it may seem mean, the woman you asked out may be also courted by a lot of different guys. She may thus simply be taking her time to decide which she should prioritize. Your best bet to avoid such a scenario would be to plan a date for either the following day or at the latest, within two days. The more time you wait, the more time she has to decide to change her mind.
9. “Wow! You’re really great with kids!”
Try not to be frighttened, but what she’s actually saying here is that she is considering you as the potential father of her future children. The first thing to do when you hear these words is not to freak out. It is important to note that she is not saying, “let’s get married and have babies.” She is merely pointing out the fact that she can see your relationship going long term, and is wondering if you feel the same as well. Again, there is no point in making a big deal out of it, as she is most likely thinking about children for the very distant future. If you are certain that you do not want children, this would probably be a good time to bring it up.
8. “Some guy kept hitting on me last night”
Sometimes, a woman just needs to hear that her man cares about her. Of course, she doesn’t want to cause a big scene, and will therefore opt for a more sneaky approach. “Some guy kept hitting on me last night” actually means “I’m trying to see if you get jealous so that I can be sure that you care about me.” There is no reason to get angry or threaten to kick anyone’s butt. Your lady just needs to know that you care about her, and appreciate her. In this situation, giving her simple compliment will make her happy and prompt her to drop the subject.